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Lifelong Baseball Obsession Loses Out To Soccer, Concert Series, Quilters

Here are five things going on in the South Windsor area today

Good morning, South Windsor! Today is Thursday, Aug. 9, 2012; there are 144 days left in the year.

I can’t believe I’m writing these words.

When I was a child, about 11 or 12, someone said to me, “One day, you’re going to meet a woman who you love more than baseball.”

My response at the time was, “You’re crazy.”


Yes, my obsession with baseball ran so deep, my calendar year started in April, when spring training started, not on Jan. 1.

I lived, breathed, ate, drank, slept baseball. I know, you’ve probably read those words before. But I had a rough childhood; baseball was my salvation. In addition to any familial issues I had, I was also bucktoothed, straight-haired and socially awkward.

But I was good at baseball. Really good. Good enough that it got me respect from the other kids. Baseball was social capital.

Off the field, things were messy. On the field? I was perfect. I was beautiful.

I adored baseball. Before my family got cable in 1984, I used to plan out my week to see when my favorite team - the Yankees - were being broadcast on WPIX out of New York.

More than a few times, I can recall thinking, “Oh man, Thursday’s going to stink. They aren’t on.”

On those nights, I’d find a working radio in the house and park myself in front of it, tolerating Phil Rizzuto’s endless stream of shout-out happy birthdays.

Now the professional game is unwatchable. It’s at least a three-hour slog just to get through your average game these days, and an even longer commitment is required if it’s Yankees (my favorite team) v. Red Sox.

I’m a full-fledged convert of another sport that I never thought I’d enjoy - soccer. I love it. First, footie players are amazing athletes. Best in the world (sorry NBA).

Second, the intrigue that’s generated in the subplots is irresistible. There’s always something driving a match, whether it’s a side fighting for top of the table supremacy, struggling mightily to stay out of the relegation zone, or battling a fierce rival in a local derby.

Third, and this is important, you as a spectator are done in a tidy two hours. There are two 45-minute halves and a 15 minute intermission, plus whatever stoppage time is tacked on to the end of either half. Oh man, just one match and you can get on with your day.

Me? I’m a huge fan of Chelsea (Celery! Celery!) in the English Premier League, which begins play for the 2012-13 season Aug. 18.

I love watching footie so much, my calendar has re-set. My sports year now starts in mid-August. Baseball, while I still adore it (you never forget your first love), has taken a back seat.

Turns out that person from my childhood was right. I did wind up meeting a woman whom I love more than baseball … and any other sport, or any other thing, for that matter.

Go figure.

Here’s your Daily 5:

1. Willow Brook Golf Course offers a 9-hole golf league this afternoon to golfers of all skill levels.

2.  The South Windsor Chamber of Commerce 22nd Annual golf tournament is today at Topstone Golf Course. Registration is 9 a.m. and tee-off is 10 a.m.

3. Drop in the from 10 a.m. to noon to join the quilters upstairs at the library.

4. The Foundation Summer Concert series continues tonight at 7 p.m. with the South Windsor Community Band.

5. There’s a family drum circle and ice cream social tonight at 6:30 p.m. at the Charles N. Enes Community Center.

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Hank Cullinane May 23, 2013 at 04:09 pm
entrenched politician, Nixonian strategy, Petulant bait and switch, profligate spending, OrwellianRead More "new approach", but don't worry Kevin it is just a perceived persecutor.
Kevin McCann May 23, 2013 at 03:17 pm
Mike, thanks for using your real name, and for trying to have a repsectful discourse. I wish moreRead More would do so. I disagree with you, but we can agree to disagree. I do not berate people's ideas, and I have never threatened anyone. My only criticism has been of the tactic of taking pot shots from the dark. I believe that "Steve Phillips" is an elected official, which makes his rants that much more objectionable by using a pseudonym. I don't mind criticism. What I do mind is shadowy mud slinging that makes it so difficult for either party to recruit good people to run for office. There are a lot of good people who see the gratuitous insults and maligning, and say that they do not want to subject themselves to that nonsense. Using real names raises the level of discourse and allows for a real exchange of ideas.
Michael Sullivan May 23, 2013 at 01:01 pm
More red-herring here! First Mr. McCann and now Mr. Riley... Really, gentlemen? You do yourselvesRead More a disservice. How can you expect to be taken seriously as town leaders if you would continue to persist in berating folks on public blogs about their user names?!? It is undignified. Quite plainly you are bullying here – I question your judgment.
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Steve Phillips May 18, 2013 at 08:55 am
Mr. McCann arrogantly conducts himself on the Town Council and here as if he is above criticism,Read More forgetting (or simply not caring) about the privilege and responsibility serving elected office holds. A privilege and responsibility granted by the very same constituents McCann insults with comments above. Lacking empathy and humility are never traits respected leaders aspire, and sadly what McCann has disrespectfully expressed here.
Susan May 17, 2013 at 06:18 pm
Totally agree with you Mr. Sullivan. There are some who cannot use their real name or only a firstRead More name at fear of being attacked. Being a politician Mr. McCann has no problem speaking out. If you disagree with him you get ripped apart. I have witnessed it first hand by watching the council meetings on TV.
Michael Sullivan May 17, 2013 at 04:00 pm
Some folks choose not to use their real or full names on public bulletin boards and blogs…Read More Welcome to the 21st century Mr. McCann! Indeed the terms of use for Patch say quite clearly: "We encourage, but do not require, that the user name you provide be your real name." Mr. McCann you have chosen to be a public figure and politician. Others who may only wish to participate anonymously on blogs and postings such as these are not required to participate at whatever _you_ may deem to be an acceptable level.